Many people say that they don't know any transgender people in their life, and they don't believe that there are some transgender people around them. Most people just know transgender people from TV shows or films. So, transgender people are often ignored by the society. When meeting or dating straight people, some transgender people don't know how to say or what to do in the process, because they don't know know to overstepping the gap and communicate with other people in normal ways. The truth about this issue is that you don't know the person you meet, you are stranger to each other, there is noting to talk about, but it is always right to show your kindness and respect. Many transgender people may feel that they are easy to be rejected by other people, especially when they have a tranny date in real life.
They have the right to determine whether date a transgender person, and you have the right to determine whether date someone who is unfriendly to you. You don't what experience they've been through, so don't be disappointed if they cannot accept dating a trans person. It can never dissuade you from finding the true love. As a transgender person who want to meet the true love, you may notice someone online, in your workplace or even on the street, and you want to be noticed by them in the same way. You can send some signals to them, or start a free talk with them. You should know how to avoid awkward conversations. The Human Rights Campaign suggests it is a great way to know more about transgender issue bu reading lgbt books. On the other hand, Human Rights Campaign and GLAAD can provide transgender people with resources by which they can be educated and helped in many aspects.
Statistics showed that transgender people are more likely to suffer from prejudices and injustices than other people in ts dating community. The truth is overwhelming and disheartening sometime. Many transgender people share their stories of being treated with prejudice and discrimination with other people, I don't think it is wise to do that. If you are a transgender people who want to live a normal life, you should be positive and always struggle to make a better life for yourself. Don't complain about other people, although some people may unfriendly to you. If you are always waiting for other people to help you out of the present life and make a better life for you, I think the day will less likely to come. Instead of complain to other people, you can share some positive stories and your life goal with them. If you want to be treated as an ordinary person, you should do as an ordinary person at first. Be a decent and kind transgender person, then you will find everything is different than before. Everyone want to live a better life, while it is not always easy to achieve. I hope all transgender people can be better in their own world. Instead of build relationships with all kinds of people, minimize the circle and keep a close relationship sincere friends.